The answer is always LOVE (or sometimes, "42"!)

The answer is always LOVE (or sometimes, "42"!)
My philosophy is LOVEISM...

Sunday, February 16, 2014

The “I Am…” Exercise



In order to stop our self-DEFECATING thoughts, like “I am not good enough/smart enough/pretty enough, etc.”, we need to be able to identify these thoughts when they surface and then, instantly REPLACE these negative statements with empowering positive, self-loving thoughts.  Yes, basically, we are trying to re-wire our brains (*but don’t listen to me, do your OWN neuroscience homework!)

Therefore, the “I am…” exercise is about engineering your OWN personal positive affirmations cheat sheet.  Powerful affirmations composed BY YOU, FOR YOU.  Simply start this exercise by making a list of positive affirmations, preferably in your own words, starting with “I am…” Add statements you wish to be true as well, such as “I am good at math” to help create this reality in the future.

To get this most out of this exercise, make your own flash cards and read through your positive affirmations daily (*get creative and add healing music in the background!) Or strategically place positive affirmations around your house (“I am a LOVE-magnet” post-it on your laptop, etc.).  And next time, you get into a funk, you can just pull this exercise out and REMIND yourself just how AWE-MAZING you really are (because we tend to forget this often!) 


Just this morning, I found myself in a deep funk, so I wrote 8-typed pages of “I am…” statements, which I have shared below and you are welcome to apply to yourself as needed.  *Actually, I have a theory that just reading through my “I am…”statements you are going to feel a little better.  Please let me know if my little experiment works!



I am worth keeping.
I am lovable.
I am loved.
I am LOVE.
I am desirable to men.
I am wanted.
I am beautiful.
I am sexy.
I am attractive.
I am playful.
I am a joker, a smoker and a midnight toker.
I am joyful.
I am BRILLIANT!
I am intelligent.
I am wise.
I am loving.
I am worth it!
I am the perfect partner for someONE.
I am a good friend.
I am a good neighbor.
I am radically honest.
I am brave.
I am courageous.
I am fear-less.
I am funny as fuck!
I am charming.
I am magical.
I am a good luck charm for myself and others.
I am a LOVE-magnet.
I am a JOY-magnet.
I am happy.
I am full of passion.
I am eager to connect deeply with others.
I am Spirit.
I am divine.
I am LIGHT.
I am a beacon to others.
I am a leader.
I am a teacher.
I am a connector.
I am a facilitator.
I am grateful.
I am a peace-maker.
I am a peace-keeper.
I am AWARE.
I am AWAKE.
I am conscious.
I am considerate.
I am always filled with Gratitude.
I am compassionate.
I am merciful.
I am Unconditional LOVE.
I am surrounded by loving, generous, caring, happy, conscious, FUN community.
I am a gift to everyONE I meet.
I am a gift to this world.
I am adored by many but especially myself.
I am in LOVE with myself.
I am generous with my time, LOVE, touch, service, positive words, money, “things”, and attention.
I am a good listener.
I am a loving, accepting family member.
I am making MY dreams come true. Right now!
I am right where I need to be.
I am excited about the future.
I am PRESENT.
I am a lover of people, plants, animals, the elements, rocks and minerals, and ALL our creations.
I am a passionate, loyal lover.
I am a DANCER.
I am a musician.
I am an artist.
I am a writer.
I am a poet.
I am in LOVE with LIFE.
I am full of joy, love and laughter.
I am an inspiration to others.
I am fuckin’ FUN.
I am the Egg Man.

I am creative.
I am abundant.
I am respected.
I am admired.
I am wanted.
I am an athlete.
I am the creator of my reality.
I am in control of my thoughts and thus what I attract to my life.
I am appreciated everywhere I go.
I am pure LOVE energy.
I am a healer.
I am open to everything.
I am patient.
I am kind.
I am nurturing.
I am FREE.
I am open to guidance.
I am connected to Source.
I am a channel.
I am forgiving.
I am empathetic.
I am all powerful.
I am surrounded by people, animals, plants, spirits/ancestors, LIFE that supports and protects me.
I am wealthy in spirit and material.
I am a light in this world.
I am full of hope.
I am PEACE.
I am at peace with where and who I am, as well as others/
I am falling in love everyday with myself and others.
I am constantly learning in FUN, gentle ways.
I am forgiving, living and accepting myself.
I am accepting myself—just as is!
I am perfect just as I am.
I am in love with my partner.
I am sowing the seeds of LOVE everywhere I go.
I am seeing the mirror in everyONE I encounter.
I am seeing the LOVE in everything.
I am seeing god in everything/everyONE.
I am hearing the same message everywhere I look…the answer is LOVE.
I am free to change my mind at any time.
I am free to express my feelings openly without fear.
I am FREE of fear.
I am embracing LOVE.
I am choosing to be happy and joyful.
I am choosing to let go of old stories that no longer serve me.
I am loving my parents, my family unconditionally.
I am loving myself unconditionally.
I am making every place I visit more beautiful.
I am dancing.
I am praying/meditating in every action (or non-action.)
I am a singer.
I am good at math.
I am part of the divine “plan”.
I am a spirit in the material world.
I am free from all attachments.
I am free from all judgments.
I am free from all self-defecating thoughts.
I am in love with everyONE I meet.
I am an alchemist—I turn everything into gold—especially myself.
I am a catalyst—I bring positive change everywhere I travel.
I am a gypsy with a solid home-base and tribe.
I am positive energy.
I am healing energy.
I am LOVE energy.
I am a luck and LOVE generator.
I am happy in my solitude.
I am a visionary.
I am intuitive.
I am psychic.
I am multi-talented.
I am gifted.
I am everyONE’s cheerleader.
I am a team player.
I am reliable, dependable, respons-able, and full of integrity.
I am a limitless supply of LOVE and LIGHT to the world.
I am limitless.
I am worth loving.
I am a sexy, powerful goddess.
I am powerful.
I am trustworthy.
I am radically honest.
I am FREE to do what I want, create what I want any ole time.
I am in LOVE with my LIFE and everyONE and thing in it!
I am a story teller.
I am a playwright.
I am a film-maker.
I am Master of Words.
I am Master of my thoughts, actions and therefore, reality.
I am healing myself every day when I choose LOVING myself, and others.
I am the ONE I am seeking.
I am ready to meet my LOVER/partner.
I am ready to commit to growing/learning/sharing with a man in a romantic relationship.
I am ready for BIG LOVE.
I am ready to let go of everything and open to my rewards.
I am ready for gifts!
I am ready for words of affirmation and LOVE.
I am ready to be seen and heard clearly.
I am ready to lead as needed, and follow as needed.
I am ready to dance!
I am ready to play!
I am ready to sing (in public)!
I am ready to openly LOVE others with no expectations of return.
I am ready to further open my heart chakra.
I am ready to completely heal ALL my past wounds.
I am ready to re-lease all “old” stories about myself.
I am ready to LIVE completely in the present.
I am ready to easily forgive others (for they know not what they do!)
I am ready to bless the future and LOVE in the now.
I am ready to STAY!!!!!!
I am ready for my own home/office/sanctuary.
I am ready to reach a larger audience.
I am ready to allow LOVE from everyONE and thing.
I am ready to be vulnerable and to trust others (especially men.)
I am ready to TRUST the process.
I am ready to TRUST others.
I am ready to FULLY LOVE others.
I am able to say NO without any guilt.
I am valuable to everyONE I meet.
I am not affected by the words and actions of others.
I am an asset to any enterprise.
I am not responsible for anyONE’s happiness but my own.
I am cheerful.
I am a positive FORCE on this planet.
I am letting go of people, thoughts, and old stories that no longer serve me.
I am a magic-magnet.
I am eternal.
I am in LOVE with my body!  My eyes, blonde hair, big boobs, long legs, flat-ish stomach…especially when all is sun-kissed!
I am a philanthropist.
I am a humanitarian.
I am a hippie.
I am a scientist.
I am worth A LOT of bloody money.
I am full of energy.
I am seeking clarity at all times.
I am letting go of pain, old hurts.
I am allowing abundance, love, joy, gifts, touch, words of affirmation, service, time, attention, and laughter at ALL times.
I am immune to the opinions and judgments of others.
I am a valuable friend.
I am the ideal partner for someone on this planet.
I am patient with myself (and others.)
I am a Master Creator/Manifestor.
I am a little bit of every person I have ever met.
I am full of brilliant ideas.
I am full of LOVE, JOY and laughter.
I am full of wisdom, patience and kindness.
I am a Zen master.
I am the Goofy Guru.
I am a badass.
I am a revolutionary.
I am a change-maker.
I am an advocate for the meek—from children to animals to entire eco-systems.
I am worth knowing.
I am a magnet for attractive, loving, conscious, fun, generous, healthy, economically-independent, gifted MEN.
I am worth a million in prizes! (Thanks Iggy!)
I am laughing.
I am self-healing.
I am an animal healer as well.
I am using all my skills, talents, knowledge and experience to bring BIG CHANGE (LOVE) and healing into this world every day.
I am an unlimited source of LOVE.
I am happy to be of service to ALL.
I am honored to be of service to ALL.
I am tireless.
I am divinely inspired.
I am changing the world, every second of the day.
I am spreading love, joy and laughter everywhere I go.
I am loving myself (and others) unconditionally.
I am caring for myself.
I am accepting myself.
I am listening and acting on my Inner Voice.
I am always connected to source.
I am never ALONE.
I am creating New Earth infrastructures around the planet.
I am sharing knowledge and wisdom every day.
I am freely sharing my gifts DAILY.
I am welcoming LOVE in ALL its forms.
I am in the flow.
I am in the vortex.
I am attracting everything I want.
I am sharing all my LOVE.
I am no longer withholding my love.
I am no longer dimming my light for others.
I am honest with myself and others.
I am able to say I love you but No thank you.
I am good at stating my boundaries.
I am at peace with myself and others.
I am deserving of LOVE in all its forms.
I am a spark.
I am full of positive intentions.
I am a dreamer.
I am a do-er.
I am a believer.
I am a shaman.
I am a positive force on this planet.
I am resilient.
I am the phoenix.
I am safe and protected at all times.
I am safe.
I am protected.
I am healthy.
I am the solution.
I am the prize.
I am a gift to myself and to this world.
I am immune to negativity.
I am feeling GREAT!
I am fantastic.
I am a pioneer.
I am all that I need.
I am supernatural.
I am attractive to men.
I am sexually stimulating.
I am a Tantrika.
I am a conduit for LOVE.
I am a source of pleasure, comfort and healing for myself, and others.
I am bold.
I am genius.
I am witty, clever and entertaining.
I am a star (literally!)
I am open to Abundance!
I am open to LOVE in all its forms.
I am manifesting my DREAMS.
I am clear.
I am all the gods and goddesses—with a side of wasabi.
I am YOU.
I am ONE with all.
I am Nothing.
I am Everything.
I am Infinity and beyond!
I am a clown.
I am a sinner and a saint.
I am a hero.
I am a miracle.
I am a miracle-maker.
I am grateful to be alive.
I am grateful for ALL the experiences and lessons.
I am mostly water.
I am full of happy healthy cells.
I am a source of power.
I am able to communicate with animals.
I am able to find humor in ALL situations.
I am able to laugh at myself OFTEN.
I am overflowing with brilliant ideas I share regularly, openly.
I am good at sports.
I am good at arts.
I am successful at everything I put my heart into.
I am valued.
I am important.
I am appreciated.
I am an excellent communicator.
I am a quick learner.
I am an eager student.
I am listening.
I am seeing the “signs” and messages more easily.
I am using my gifts to bring light, love and joy into the world.
I am the answer.
I am in awe of all the beauty around me.
I am in LOVE with nature.
I am made of stardust.
I am unique (just like everyONE else!)
I am a seed-planter.
I am a caregiver.
I am always going to be OK.
I am stunning.
I am awesome.
I am awe-mazing.
I am that I am.



 Word.

The Goofy Guru 









1 comment:

frzzlmom said...

Thats à great list Kelly! And... à great self programming technique....